Happy Valentine's Day!!!
1. Give thanks that you are single.
- I was discussing Vday plans with a co-worker last week. She was asking who my special someone would be for Vday and told her that it's the first time in almost six years that I'm actually spending it with me, myself and I. I gave her a teeny backgrounder of the drama and I got an understanding, sweet smile and she said "Oh wow, you DO deserve a break!" I didn't get any pity-you're-alone-make-you-feel-better BS from her and I appreciate that thank you very much. Yes, I'll take her word for it. I do deserve some ME time.
2. If you build it, it will come.
- Patience is a virtue.
3. Make peace with the cat lady scenario.
- It's not so bad. It's likely that more than half of what you really want to do by yourself, you can't do when you're tied down. So there.
4. Be scientific.
- The article said that in surveys, 88% of women will end up getting married at one point worldwide. I guess the chances of me falling into the remaining 12% is unlikely. Looks like eventually hooking up with someone is like catching a virus.
5. Embrace uncertainty.
- Because you just never know and can never be sure of anything at all no matter what you say. I'm an eyewitness to this.
6. The importance of being earnest.
- Sue me if I sometimes wear my heart on my sleeve. Sue me if I'm transparent. Sue me, I'm being me.
7. Get a boy friend/s.
- I grew up with two brothers. I have more guy friends than girl friends. This does make some sense. You get help deciphering the male psyche and have a blast at the same time. Just DONT fall in love with them. PERIOD.
8. Say yes.
- In due time. In my own sweet time.
9. Don't wear ugly underwear.
- Do it for YOURSELF hon. Haha! =D
10. Karma is a boomerang.
- Because it just is.
Love Actually by Rachael Combe, ELLE Magazine February 2006.
Today I am thankful for:
- an unassuming friendship, it's waay cool!
- dayquil high *sniffle, sniffle* YEAH!